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Ego Dropping: The Magic of Breaking Free from Self-Concern

· Mindfulness & Mastery

There’s a mindfulness technique I’ve been practicing for a number of years now, and when I can do it, it’s like magic. The practice is dropping the ego — dropping my self-concern, my sense of being separate from everything else, and returning to wholeness with everything. While that can sound a bit new age-y, what …

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A Simple Practice for Stressful Holidays

The holidays are some of the busiest and most stressful times of the year for many people. In this chaotic time of travel, family gatherings, holiday parties, gift shopping and wrapping, and more … I’d like to offer a simple practice. This is a mindfulness practice to bring presence and relieve stress, and allow you …

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Training in Uncertainty

· Uncertainty & Discomfort

I’ve been training in uncertainty for a few years now. I realized that the people I coach and teach are just like me: we feel shaky, scared, anxious, uncomfortable when we are faced with massive uncertainty, when the ground is pulled out from under our feet. This shakiness is the cause of our procrastination, hiding …

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Simplify Technology with Limits

· Simplicity & Slowness

I am no technophobe, but I do believe in living consciously … and technology has a tendency to overrun our attention and our lives. It’s designed to do that: tech companies are motivated to keep our attention in their apps, their websites, their devices. They’ve found incentives for us to keep using the technology, …

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A More Deliberate Way of Living

· Mindfulness & Mastery

Our lives are often spent in a rush, almost on autopilot, drifting from one wave of busyness and distraction to another, adrift in a sea of crises and urges. There’s noise and quick tasks, lots of tabs, messages and requests, demands on our attention, multitasking, mind scattered everywhere. The nature of the world is …

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How to Get Good at Dealing With Massive Change

· Mindfulness & Mastery

Going through the steps above once or twice will help you learn it, but it won’t really matter on a day-to-day basis in your life until you train in it. Daily training is the best method. Here’s the training plan I recommend: That’s the training. I recommend just the first two steps for most people — I think it’ll …

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An Intentional System for Working with Goals

By Leo Babauta Goals, like any tool, can be used to bludgeon ourselves over the head with shame and guilt, or can be used with intention, as a way to consciously deep our practice in life. I’ve been known to rail against having goals from time to time, to espouse goal-less living … but the truth is, goals can be used …

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